Let's discuss this over lunch

A couple weeks ago, a senior colleague asked me if I wanted to go to lunch with him and discuss what I want to do with my life. A very, very kind offer.

We went to lunch today and talked about various aspects of my life and where I wanted myself and career to be in the future.

It's all about making connections, he said. To sell yourself to other people and do the things that make you feel uncomfortable.

"Be prepared to go to a lot of lunches," he said. He explained that there was not a single person who has helped him in his life or career whom he did not first share a meal. He said there was something in our culture where breaking bread signified a kind of trusting relationship.

Naturally, he chose the time when we were eating lunch to explain this. Blatant yet subtle.

It was very kind of him to take time out of his busy schedule to have a simple lunch with me and discuss my life. He gave me exceptional advice and recommendations that I will cherish, but more than anything, it was the kindness in his offer that was so special.